I’d also love to share with you this collection of womb wisdom and gentle healing practices from a few of my favorite and most trusted sources:

This edition of the BodyWiseMama Guide to Gearing Up is BOLD!  

I consider it “bold” to curate a guide for labor + birth because, across the board, delivering a baby is an amazingly variable and unpredictable experience on the path of motherhood.  When all is said and done, women “successfully” give birth in many different ways.  The following recommendations are intended to help you feel ready for navigating and responding to a multitude of variables (including how, where and with whose assistance you deliver) as you move towards giving birth.  Although we are not speaking directly to these variables so specifically or at length, please note that a lot of the recommendations here generally pertain to enduring early-to-active labor leading up to a vaginal birth.  If you are scheduled for or end up going in for a C-section, we’ve got you covered in terms of creating a pre-op foundation for post-op recovery and resiliency.  Please always check with your doctor, nurses, midwives, surgeon, etc. first before applying the tips in this guide.

All the products, services and practices below are not intended to be one-size-fits-all prescriptions.  They are, however, the most frequently recommended by real deal experts in their respective fields – from Western to Eastern Medicine, exercise to essential oils, and whole foods to homeopathy.  The five aspects of holistically gearing up for labor and birth included in this guide are:

Strength + Stamina

Nutrition + Energy

Bodywork + Relaxation

Acupuncture + Restoration

Essential Oils + Energetic Elevation

STRENGTH + STAMINA

Source: Kate Jesuele, MA, CPT, R-DMT, Certified Pre/Postnatal Fitness Instructor & Health Coach

Email: kate@bodywisemama.com  /  IG & FB: @bodywisemama

Giving birth is a literal labor of love – a sacred experience of divine feminine power.  I’d also like to add that it’s an athletic event.  As such, why not train the body and the brain for it?  I can’t tell you how many clients and students recount their birth story with anecdotal evidence that it is a total body workout (to say the least!) and that they rocked it.  Women who’ve trained with me throughout pregnancy report strong push muscle memory kicking in as well as confidently lifting and holding themselves up with feats of upper body strength while they push (think biceps curls, lat pulls and triceps dips… no kidding!).

When I say “train,” I am NOT talking about grueling, drill-sergeant-like workouts with a ‘no rest for the weary’ or ‘no pain no gain’ mentality.  On the contrary, I’m a proponent of practicing and preparing with strength, stamina and endurance exercises for the physical and mental demands that delivering a new life into this world will inevitably place on you.  If you’re trying to conceive or pregnant as you read this, I’ve no doubt you’re nodding your head because you already feel those demands of conceiving and carrying your baby.

In addition to reframing your prenatal workouts as training sessions for labor and birth, a lot of my fitness coaching leading up to baby’s b-day is focused on laying the foundation for a mindset of a professional athlete.  We can glean lots of inspiration and motivation from how athletes optimize their fitness for our endurance challenge of giving birth AND transitioning to new motherhood.  For example: current research suggests that focusing on high quality sleep AND exposure to sunlight in addition to nutrition and exercise are major league moves to elevating sports performance for professional and recreational athletes alike.

Whatever your labor and birth plans are, now is the time to focus on establishing the positive self-care habits of eating, training (preferably in sunshine!) and recovering like an athlete to move through delivery and into your postpartum recovery.

Here are five ways to transform prenatal workouts into highly specialized labor and birth training sessions.  One of the best pieces of advice that translates to a vaginal delivery is to practice a laser focused connection to the muscles you’re using as much as possible while you work out – especially your “push muscles.”  When I was studying to become a certified pre/postnatal fitness coach, I was taught to “push through the butt and the gut.”  Well, that’s not exactly true as it turns out.  But, here’s what actually helps: on each push, exhale to contract the diaphragm while relaxing the inner thigh muscles as much as possible.  If you’re within a few weeks of your due date, grab a buddy or your birth partner and try this exercise to pump up your push muscles, improve your posture, build trust and practice mindful breathing at the same time.  It’s one of the most efficient and fun labor training moves!

Are you scheduled for a C-section?  Please keep in mind that all of the BodyWiseMama methods of training for labor and birth apply to you as well!  Your prenatal workouts will build a foundation of total body strength and resiliency for your post-op recovery.

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• • Pedialyte
  • Coconut water
  • Electrolyte water
  • Broth
  • Popsicles
  • If you are unable to drink fluid, you can ask for an IV fluid bag which contains sugar, salt and other electrolytes.

• • Trail mix
  • Tuna or salmon packets (they may need to eat these in the hallway)
  • Peanut butter crackers
  • Dry roasted chickpeas (try a pre-made brand like Bienna)
  • Fruit cups packed in water
  • Water Bottles”

• Gain a deeper understanding of the labor process that includes: the stages of labor, variations during this process, signs of progression and stalling/slowing down.
• Learn comfort and relaxation techniques that include: supportive positioning for each stage of labor and ways to help with optimal fetal positioning; massage and counter pressure to reduce stress and discomfort; breath-work to use during contractions; and gain an overall understanding of the mind/body connection.
• Discuss how to become your own birth advocate by: learning way to express your individual goals, understanding how to make informed decisions during your labor including if presented with unexpected obstacles/interventions, and ways to create a positive, supportive birthing environment.

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ACUPUNCTURE + RESTORATION

Source: Caroline Grace Ashurst, M.Ac., Dipl.Ac., Founder of Restorative Harmony Acupuncture

Email: restorativeharmony@gmail.com   /   Social: @restorativeharmony

“Oftentimes, mamas-to-be are busy working until they literally go into labor because they want to bank as much time off as possible for their postpartum period with their new baby. I get that in our culture we are unfortunately practically forced to plan our lives this way, and it is the mothers who pay the most for the imposition that our cultural values and work ethic place on families (I can go on and on and on about this!)  This last “push” before the birth itself can be extremely stressful and exhausting for a full term mama, and all of the stress leading up to it can really inhibit a timely and easeful labor.

In Chinese medicine, the Liver and Kidneys both take the energetic hit for this modern day conundrum. I highly recommend weekly treatments 6 weeks leading up to the estimated due date, but because of this need to “grind it” until the end of term, I cannot recommend it enough. These end of term treatments balance the Liver and Kidneys, help ripen the cervix, improve blood flow, and clear energetic and emotional blocks from stress that often accompanies this last home stretch before the baby arrives.  Sometimes these appointments are the ~only~ time a mama gets to rest and relax during these last precious days.

As for acupuncture administered during labor itself, there is actually a program in a New York City hospital that treats laboring womxn with acupuncture because of its incredible ability to advance labor more safely and efficiently, and to help mitigate labor intensity. I do not offer acupuncture during labor, however I love treating pregnant womxn in my practice, so please come see me!  If you are intrigued by the concept of acupuncture during labor, you can actually utilize the incredible benefits of acupuncture points during labor by having your labor partner use them as pressure points!  It is a massage technique that is very easy to integrate. Here is a wonderful free guide for acupressure during labor by Debra Betts that I’ve made available to you on my website.

My second suggestion for Labor + Birth is to do.your.research.  I will always support a womxn’s choice 100% of the time in my practice, and I will try to educate her on best practices out there and share all of the great resources I have come to accumulate over the years. If you are interested in natural birth (or at least vaginal), you can gauge whether a hospital/institution truly supports vaginal birth by looking at the hospital’s cesarean rates: they will tell you a lot about their intention to support you if that is your choice in your birthing plan.

In general, I think it is pretty common for acupuncturists who are familiar with the labor and birthing process to personally recommend the midwifery model.

Midwifery sees birth as a natural human process that doesn’t innately need interventions; obstetricians see birth as an emergency that requires intervention. That philosophical difference alone speaks volumes.  Again, do your research and do what feels RIGHT for YOU.  Ask doctors and midwives if they really do support your birth vision and will do everything in their power to accommodate it. REALLY listen with your GUT to their response.  Make appointments with a few different practices to see what feels like a good fit. There’s no reason you only have to pick one and go with that!

If midwifery care interests you and you’re unfamiliar, I recommend Lifecycle Woman Care in Bryn Mawr. They have a South Philly outpost for appointments as well. In addition to their prenatal and labor and delivery care, they also offer “well womxn” visits and are capable of writing prescriptions and doing most of the same testing and labs as Ob’s. You can establish yourself there well before you plan on conceiving, or make an appointment to find out if the midwifery care model may resonate with your needs after you have conceived.

The bottom line is, advocate for yourself. Don’t give your power away because of fear, uncertainty, or not being educated. You should be spending your hard earned money on practitioners that you feel exceedingly good about!”

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This second installation of the BodyWiseMama guide to gearing up for feeling your best at every stage of pregnancy covers “prenatal wellness” – trimesters 1, 2 and 3.

All the products, services and practices below are not intended to be one-size-fits-all prescriptions.  They are, however, the most frequently recommended by real deal experts in their respective fields – from Western to Eastern Medicine, exercise to essential oils, and whole foods to homeopathy.  The following guide includes five areas of self-care:

Strength + Stamina

Nutrition + Energy

Bodywork + Relaxation

Acupuncture + Restoration

Essential Oils + Energetic Elevation

STRENGTH + STAMINA

Source: Kate Jesuele, MA, CPT, R-DMT, Certified Pre/Postnatal Health + Fitness Coach

Email: kate@bodywisemama.com  /  Social: @bodywisemama

“After the experience of TTC (or naturally conceiving by surprise!), pregnancy is a transition to even more transformation for body, mind and spirit; a lot of expected and unexpected changes occur in those 9 months.  I often encourage my clients and students to treat their prenatal workouts the same as an athlete who’s exercising for peak physical and mental performance.  Eat, sleep and train like an athlete because you are moving towards an athletic event like no other – the most literal labor or love, strength, wisdom and courage!

Now, I would be remiss if I did not share the current ACOG guidelines for safely exercising during pregnancy.  But, to be honest, the information that most of the women I’ve worked with have received before stepping into the studio with me are vague and general to a fault.  For many first-time expectant mamas, what seems to be needed the most is validation and empowerment to trust their own sense of safety, stability, strength and stamina while working out.  Of course, there are certain medically diagnosed conditions that are accompanied by strict instructions from a physician or physical therapist that must be weighed in the equation of “right action” for each individual.  With all the above in mind, this total body prenatal workout was designed with all fitness levels, common pregnancy-related conditions and all trimesters in mind.  It hits all the sweet spots for what I consider a perfect prenatal workout:  slow, steady, stable, stress-relieving and safe that will leave you feeling sweaty and strong today and satisfyingly sore tomorrow.  Sorry I’m not sorry: I really love alliteration!

The question I’m asked the most is, “when should I stop doing ab work?”  Never!  Sounds crazy, right?  Here’s my rationale: the abs along with the rest of your core muscles don’t disappear or stop being used while you’re pregnant.  To the contrary, they are working their hardest to stay intact and strong to “make room for the womb.”  The question I recommend you ask your physician, physical therapist, certified personal trainer, yoga teacher, Pilates instructor AND yourself is: “how can I support my core while I’m moving and grooving through my day, practice or workout?”  Click HERE for my humble yet expert opinion about targeting your abs during pregnancy.

Finally, if you are experiencing pelvic pain or strain associated with hypermobility (i.e. joints that easily move beyond the normal range expected or as I like to call “loosey goosey”), especially in the 3^rd trimester, the use of a band or belt under the bump might be a saving grace.  Here’s a brand of bump support that I believe in.  As you exercise throughout your pregnancy, it’s important to keep in mind that relaxin (a hormone that, among many things, prepares your body for the birth process by causing a softening and lengthening of the cervix and the pubic symphysis) tends to peak a few times throughout pregnancy: right after ovulation, through the first trimester, and then again towards the end of the 3rd trimester.  My recommendation during these phases, when relaxin levels may surge, is to keep your prenatal workouts even more stable, low impact and relatively slow-paced so that you can focus on pelvic alignment and support.

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NUTRITION + ENERGY

Source: Beth Auguste, MS, RD, CSOWM, Founder, Be Well with Beth

Contact: Beth@BeWellwithBeth.com  /  Social: @bewellwithbeth

Disclaimer: this is not a comprehensive nutrition guide for pregnancy.  This book is highly recommended to have on the shelf for reference as you go.  And here’s another great resource to have on hand.

FIRST TRIMESTER

The first trimester tends to be a time when we “know we should” eat tons of fruit and vegetables, complex carbs, healthy proteins and fats — but all we can stomach are carbs, carbs and more carbs.  As a dietitian I want to tell you that it is OK if you can’t manage to eat a perfectly balanced diet in this beginning period of pregnancy.  Here are some tips to get through [some of the most common experiences that can challenge your nutritional well-being]:

Nausea/Vomiting:  Vitamin B6 and Ginger

Food sources of Vitamin B6: tuna (chunk lite is lowest in mercury; one serving per week is OK), turkey, potatoes, sunflower seeds, chickpeas, fortified cereals.  If reading this food list made your stomach turn, then I advise talking with your doctor about taking a B6 supplement of 50mg at two different times in a day.  Try grating ginger root over your meals, asking for some pickled ginger at your local sushi joint, drinking ginger kombucha or ginger tea. If you just can’t stand the taste of ginger, you can try this.  If you are experiencing vomiting after eating, try separating your liquid and solid intake.

Fatigue: H20 and Small/Frequent Meals

During the first trimester your body is building an organ (a placenta).  This takes ENERGY!  The blood flow and volume in your body must increase so that your body can do its job of building that organ.  Aim for an extra 25 ounces of water each day to help maintain the work.  Even with the healthiest of diets you may feel fatigued.  [The good news is that this is probably the best time to allow all the carb cravings because] simple carbs will give you quick energy.  Keep things like crackers on hand to nibble on throughout the day.  Try to squeeze in some protein when you can stomach it.

GERD

Do not lay down within 45 minutes of eating a meal. If you do lay down, prop yourself up on some pillows.  Avoid chewing gum or drinking out of straws.

In general: if you’re worried about nutrition intake, a high quality prenatal supplements can put your mind at ease.  Ask your doctor for a prenatal vitamin prescription that includes omega-3 fatty acids and methylated folate.

SECOND TRIMESTER

This is the time when your energy may return and be at its peak.  Aim for at least 5 cups of fruit and vegetables per day.  Try to meet these micronutrient goals with food:

Omega-3 for baby’s brain development: 300mg EPA/DHA per day

Food Sources include fish, fish oils, walnuts, seafoods, egg yolk (free range), grass fed beef, some prenatal vitamins, brussels sprouts, broccoli.

Limit Mercury: no more than 6 ounces albacore tuna (“white tuna”) per week.  In general, it is good to have fish in moderation during pregnancy.  Read more about mercury here.   

Iron: Increase daily intake by 50%

Food Sources include beef, bison, wild salmon, clams, and beans.

Folate Fortification

Food Sources: You’ll absorb more of the folate from fortified cereals than from other sources.

Calcium: 2-3 servings/day

Food Sources include broccoli, dried beans, some fortified products like juice, breakfast cereal and bread.

THIRD TRIMESTER

During this trimester you may feel just peachy, or you may be feeling swollen and the return of GERD symptoms.  If you are experiencing swelling, it is normal. This does not mean that you need to cut back on salt.  In fact, the recommendation during pregnancy is to eat salt to taste.  See the First Trimester section above for my recommendations to alleviate reflux.

The third trimester is a great time to plan for your early postpartum days.  Here are some ideas that work in ‘real life’:

 

• Plant filled water bottles around the house because you’ll be surprised how many places you will get ‘stuck’ under your baby.  Try to have water within arm’s reach at all times.  Do the same thing with convenient 100 calorie portions of nuts, dried fruit or other non-perishable snacks.
• Make or buy some frozen crock pot meals.  Set yourself up with containers filled with ready-to-go ingredients or order prefilled containers from here.
• Buy frozen vegetables that you enjoy eating.  You can heat and eat these on the side with all the lasagna that your friends and family bring you!

ACUPUNCTURE + HOLISTIC HEALING

Source: Caroline Grace Ashurst, M.Ac., Dipl.Ac., Founder of Restorative Harmony Acupuncture

Email: restorativeharmony@gmail.com   /   Social: @restorativeharmony

“Being an Acupuncturist and advocate of the Chinese medicine approach, I believe the prenatal period of your journey to mama-hood should be all about nourishing yourself and preparing yourself for your birth and postpartum period.  One thing we talk about in Chinese medicine is that our pregnancy should be filled with as much beauty and joy as possible.

Sometimes, it’s impossible to curate that given unforeseen circumstances, but to whatever our ability is, we can make that an intention and keep it in our mind. What that means is: “Watch What You “Eat.”  I don’t mean that in terms of what you’re actually literally eating, but I mean it in the nuance of “Everything you’re ‘Taking In’”: what are you watching on netflix? Is it positive, uplifting, and joyful or scary and unsettling? What are you reading? What kinds of energy are you surrounding yourself with? What are you allowing others to say that you are ‘digesting’? Creating the most joyful and beauty-filled environment as possible for you and your baby inside you is incredibly healthy for your body, mind, and spirit.

Side note: I say all of this with a grain of salt because not everyone has this privilege, unfortunately. And I am very adamant about womxn not feeling guilty about not being able to be perfect parents-starting from Day 1!  Just to have the awareness about this is everything. I want to also remind you that you are doing an incredible job, and please do not let anyone out there make you feel like you are not. People can say the damndest things to womxn when they are pregnant and/or parenting.  It is common for womxn to have depression and anxiety during pregnancy and, if that’s you, don’t let anyone make you feel guilty that you literally are incapable of ‘creating beauty and joy’ in your pregnancy! You are doing the best you can. This is my one caveat to my above recommendation. 

My second recommendation is to get Acupuncture regularly, of course! Acupuncture during pregnancy can help with so many ailments, and because it’s safe it is a really great option for womxn. Acupuncture and moxibustion therapy (an adjunctive modality in our practice) can actually flip breech babies! It’s a very well-known therapy for this presentation of the fetus, and I treat it often in my clinic with great results. Acupuncture also treats all kinds of other pregnancy-related ailments. Some of them I regularly see in practice are: morning sickness, pregnancy sinusitis, pregnancy sciatica, muscle aches and pains, anxiety, reflux and other digestive issues, sleep issues, etc.  Acupuncture is a safe, effective way to support a lot of health issues when pharmaceutical use isn’t ideal.

For women who had a hard time trying to conceive, oftentimes they need the extra mental and emotional support that acupuncture can provide them. For a history of miscarriage, acupuncture can support healthy development and supporting full term pregnancy. For women with a history of anxiety and depression, it can work wonders. Since I work with alot of women hormonally, I often see alot of this in my practice, and love treating it. With so many healthy benefits, it’s really a great option for your overall wellness care during the prenatal period. You can come see us if you live in Philadelphia or you can find someone local to you who specializes in women’s health.

The last recommendation I offer all womxn who are with me during the prenatal phase is to start regularly seeing a chiropractor, and specifically one who practices The Webster Technique, a special chiropractic technique that helps women have better birthing outcomes because of it’s effect on the sacrum’s alignment.  A Philadelphia chiropractor, Dr. Justin Ohm, practices this technique and his family actually created the curriculum around teaching this approach to other chiropractors all over the country.  I saw Justin during my pregnancy, and I recommend every woman do as well as part of her prenatal care.”

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YOGA + BODYWORK

Source: Carrie Sarlo-Randazzi, RYT, LMT, Founder of HoliMomma

Email: carrie@holimomma.com   /   Social: @holimomma_nj

“Finding a massage therapist that specializes in prenatal care is essential.  Therapeutic massage has many benefits, especially during pregnancy. This is an amazing and beautiful time in a woman’s life but most pregnant women feel periods of physical discomfort and emotional stress. Prenatal massage offers many benefits such as: reduction in muscle tension and back pain, fatigue and anxiety; headache relief; circulation and digestion improvement; lessening of pain in the hip and pelvic areas; postural and hormonal balance; and overall relaxation and well-being for the momma-to-be.”

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ESSENTIAL OILS + ENERGETIC ELEVATION

Source: Paige Chapman, Founder of Mama’s Wellness Joint

Contact: paige@mamaswellnessjoint.com   /   Social: @paigelc

• Peppermint: Amazing for nausea, heartburn, and acid reflux. DoTerra makes a “beadlette” version that you can pop in your mouth like a mint and we can’t keep them in stock at Mama’s Wellness Joint. (Ginger is also great and can be rubbed behind the ears. The two together work wonders!)
• Lavender and the Serenity blend: Great for insomnia
•  All the citrus oils (Lemon, Lemongrass, Grapefruit, Wild Orange): For exhaustion and mood lifters if feeling down – also great combined with peppermint
• Deep Blue muscle rub for a all aches and pains
• Cyprus oil for cramping (massage into the area; can be added to body oil or cream)

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It’s a very special edition of the BodyWiseMama Blog! 

I’m thrilled to publish this premier of a 4-part series in which I’ve curated expert guidance, recommendations and resources for optimal holistic fitness at every stage of pregnancy: 1) Fertility/TTC, 2) Pregnancy, 3) Labor & Birth, and, 4) Postpartum Recovery.  It must be stated that I wholeheartedly endorse the pros who have contributed their unique experience, expertise and empowered approach to prenatal and postpartum wellness.  I’m humbled by and grateful for their generosity of spirit and invaluable insights.  

This first part focuses on gearing up for fertility – tried and true practices, services and products that support you feeling your best in body, mind and spirit while trying to conceive (TTC).

 

All the products, services and practices below are not intended to be one-size-fits-all prescriptions.  They are, however, the most frequently recommended by real deal experts in their respective fields – from Western to Eastern Medicine, exercise to essential oils, and whole foods to homeopathy.  This guide to gearing up for fertility includes five powerful practices for holistic fitness:

 

1. Strength + Stamina
2. Nutrition + Energy
3. Bodywork + Relaxation
4. Acupuncture + Restoration
5. Essential Oils + Spiritual Elevation

STRENGTH + STAMINA

Source: Kate Jesuele, MA, CPT, R-DMT, Certified Pre/Postnatal Fitness Instructor & Health Coach, Founder of BodyWiseMama

Email: kate@bodywisemama.com  /  Social: @bodywisemama

“When I coach clients for ‘fertility fitness,” what I’m really thinking about is ‘endocrine exercise.’  More specifically: strength and conditioning for humming, happy and harmonious hormones!  When you’re trying to conceive (TTC), the way you exercise can often help or hinder your body’s readiness for pregnancy.  Current research informs us now that there are several fertility factors that are both effect and are affected by our hormones:

• Healthy Weight & Body Composition
• Regular Menstrual Cycles
• Reduced Stress
• Quality Sleep Patterns

If you are currently ovulating and timing intercourse for conception, here are my tried and true guidelines for preconception workouts that will help you: a) maintain a healthy weight, b) increase lean muscle mass, c) preserve consistency in your cycle, d) release excess energy or stress, and, e) gain more restorative sleep.  As a member of BodyWiseMama, you’ve got on demand access to a 35-minute workout that meets all of these guidelines awaiting you in the virtual studio.  Join me there now!

If you are TTC with the assistance of hormone intake or injections, IUI or IVF, please always keep your fertility specialist in the loop about the types of exercise you are conditioned for doing (i.e. your body has adapted over the course of consistent training for at least a year) to receive appropriate instructions for reducing intensity, duration, frequency and volume.  From personal experience, here are some general recommendations:

Exercising for Medically-Assisted Conception (including IUI and IVF):

• Spend most of the workout in “warmup mode” (50-60% your max rate of perceived exertion).
• Avoid twisting, deep crunching or overstretching of your abs.
• Decrease your typical load for strength training by at least 5-10 lbs. and keep your core stable and supported for all lifting.
• Choose “slow and steady” as your mantra during cardio-based workouts, like running, rowing or spinning; aim to pass the “talk test” throughout.
• LISTEN closely to your body’s signals for strain in muscles surrounding your pelvis and STOP doing whatever you were doing to cause the strain; take a few moments to let the muscles relax and then choose something else.

For those who are opting to work out from home throughout the TTC journey, here’s how to “BYO” (build your own) studio with as little as a resistance band and a yoga block.

Getting outside and into nature for workouts while TTC can be amazingly refreshing, invigorating and healing.  Even just making it a point to go for a walk through your favorite park once a week is beneficial.   I highly recommend seeking out a studio that offers class options like prenatal yoga, gentle Vinyasa, “slow flow” or belly dance at this stage of your pregnancy journey.  These types of movement have an inherent femininity and sensuality that feel so aligned with the intent of conceiving.”

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NUTRITION + ENERGY

Source: Beth Auguste, MS, RD, CSOWM, Registered Dietitian + Nutritionist, Be Well with Beth

Contact: Beth@BeWellwithBethPHL.com  /  Social: @bewellwithbeth

“The best diet for fertility is one that helps to reduce oxidative stress and inflammation.  In plain English, this means that you should eat plenty of fruit and vegetables and healthy sources of omega-3 fatty acids such as salmon, tuna (once or twice a week is fine — chunk lite is lower in mercury), walnuts, ground flax seed, hemp seed, free range organic eggs or grass fed meats.  It is important to remember that an anti-inflammatory diet also means that you should stop eating foods that cause inflammation. In some cases, these foods will be the same for everyone, for example, it is good for everyone who is trying to get pregnant to avoid a diet high in overly processed foods.  However, other foods can be trickier to determine.  If you know that a certain food creates abdominal discomfort or skin irritation, then that food is creating inflammation inside your body and should be avoided while trying to conceive.  [Preconception] is, however, not the time to try an intermittent fasting diet or any other diet that requires severe calorie restriction. You want your body to be in ‘building mode.’

There is also a large amount of evidence pointing to the benefit of full fat dairy in fertility.  Now is the time to eat 2% or higher yogurts, milks and cheeses.  Aim for 5-6 servings per week.  Another great resource [I recommend] for fertility nutrition is The Fertility Diet.”

BODYWORK + RELAXATION

Source: Carrie Sarlo-Randazzi, RYT, LMT, Founder of HoliMomma

Email: carrie@holimomma.com   /   Social: @holimomma_nj

“I recommend diaphragm breathing to everyone but especially for women preparing for conception. Making the decision to become a parent can be wonderful but also very stressful. Our thoughts can go in many directions.  Is my body capable to carry a baby?  Can we financially afford having a family?  Will I be a good parent? And so on… Practicing diaphragm breathing is an excellent place to begin with understanding the ability to shift our response to stress. It also allows us to create deeper awareness within our own mind-body connection.

In addition to calming the nervous system, diaphragm breathing is wonderful for the health of our organs and pelvic floor.  The movement of the diaphragm helps to maintain circulation around our organs with the flow of blood, lymph, energy and nerve connection to the brain.  In regard to the health of our connective tissue and muscular structure, the downward movement of the diaphragm as we inhale, gently presses on the pelvic floor, working as an internal massage to relax pelvic floor muscles.  As we exhale, the diaphragm moves upward, giving a subtle contraction to the pelvic floor.  This movement allows the pelvic floor muscles to relax and contract – essential for pelvic health.”

For more on Carrie’s insights on how Diaphragm Breathing can help you on your TTC journey, click HERE.

ACUPUNCTURE + RESTORATION

Source: Caroline Grace Ashurst, M.Ac., Dipl.Ac., Founder of Restorative Harmony Acupuncture

Email: restorativeharmony@gmail.com   /   Social: @restorativeharmony

“For you ladies who are trying to conceive, finding out if you are ovulating is the first, most empowered step you can take in your process.  There are ancient ways womxn throughout the ages used to elucidate what part of the cycle their body was in and when they were ovulating. These are very sacred practices of self-awareness and love that are actually very simple, easy, and enlightening for you to reclaim! I highly recommend beginning to see what your cycle is doing as soon as the idea of having a baby comes into your awareness. This tool is a process of seeing patterns, so it takes a few months to get a clear view on what’s happening.  There are a few ways you can do it (or you can use all three so you can be a powerhouse maven with your cycle!), and I offer a free guide on my website for you to use so you can begin to acquaint yourself.  There are also some great apps and devices that alot of women are using to help them; I briefly talk about that in my free guide.

The second step in your process of a more conscious/conscientious conception approach is looking at what you’re eating.  Nothing is better than a whole body/environmental detox/purification. Our livers are so inundated with just our normal day-to-day exposures to toxins, alcohol, chemicals, you name it! We live in a world surrounded by pollutants, including the ones in our food. Elimination diets are fabulous for de-stressing your liver and freeing up your body to have to over-process so it can focus all your energy on conception!

Going hand in hand with an elimination diet is integrating organic whole foods into your life. Nothing is going to give you the kind of nutrient density that helps create life like foods that are packed with easy-to-assimilate nutrients, vitamins and minerals.

Eliminating certain foods and increasing lots of whole foods will help rebalance your body and create a cozy environment to conceive in.  A great starting point would be to use the Environmental Working Group’s Clean 15 and Dirty Dozen lists to help you start selecting produce that is as low-toxin as possible.

As an Acupuncturist and Holistic Women’s Fertility Coach, I know how integral and powerful these two aspects can be in a womxn’s process to conceive. I also know how challenging it is as well!  That’s why I crafted a special virtual coaching program online for womxn who are trying to conceive called The Fertility Trinity: Purify, AMPLIFY, and Transform Your Fertility in 45 Days.

In my guided 6-week coaching program, you will learn how to detox and purify your body, nourish and restore your body-mind-spirit, and learn how to get on the right track so you can trust your process and relax into your journey. By using ancient and modern holistic tools and techniques for your body, mind, and spirit, you will amplify your fertility and invigorate your body’s natural ability to conceive so you can feel calm, empowered, and grounded. The added mindset piece in my program is a special piece to support the ups and downs that sometimes come with this process.”

Caroline is offering FREE 30-minute consultations for her virtual coaching program, The Fertility Trinity to the BodyWiseMama community.  Click HERE to schedule yours!

• Frankincense: The king of all oils! Frankincense is a fertility powerhouse and is great to regulate hormone imbalances.
• Clary Sage: CS is considered one of the best essential oils for fertility. It also helps to balance hormones and regulate the menstrual cycle. Also great for mood lifting and steadying yourself for the ups and downs of your fertility journey.  Please note that Clary Sage is a uterine tonic and while great for pre-pregnancy, you would not want to use this one for the first two trimesters.
• Geranium: You may be deceived from the smell in the bottle – once this oil is on your skin it is heavenly!  Not only is this another great fertility oil that balances your hormones, it’s great for cultivating an open heart and, later on, bonding with your baby and breastfeeding.